Obviously I’m going to write this post based on my own experince; without expereince I have no credibility or knowledge. Before reading this post remember some things about women are similar but not all women are the same. Each female in the world has her own pros and cons about her self similar to men.

When I talk about women I’m refering to young women so, this post may not connect easily to women of other age groups; therefore, I will refer to women as girls from this point on.

To the female readers, do not get offended by some of the things I have written; some the things I pointed out about your gender group may or may not relate to you.

Before I got into a relationship there are certain things I figured out about girls; again all these are based on my experiences, and the females freinds who I spent time with gave me certain perceptions about the female gender group.

- They conceal alot of things
- They feel uneasy if guys touch them without their permission, even if it was a simple and friendly gesture (this was actually not by me but other males who my female freinds encountered)
- They will notice if guys stare at them and some may feel uncomfortable
- They are very good listeners
- They are very understanding
- Even if they don’t have outer beauty they still have a inner form of beauty
- They will hangout and enjoy talking to guys who don’t inspect their body or ask them out
- They can be bitchy

After I got into a serious relationship I found out so much about females. For some weired reason I had no problem getting along with a girl for an intimate relationship. I treated her like a queen and listened to her, which is very strange for a guy. I observed my girl and my perceptions about females didn’t change from before when I was single; however, I found out so much about females with my expereince with my girl.

- Girls love attention, if you don’t give them enough attention, then they will seek attention from other males
- Girls need space, you can’t be too controlling
- If you show love to them then they will love you back
- No matter what they will find a way to make you happy one way or another
- They love it when their man is romantic
- If you cared for them and show it, then they will appreciate it, which is good in the long run
- It’s hard to gain a girl’s trust; however, with time a strong bond of trust can be formed
- You have to be easy with them when they are on their period becuase they go through alot during that time
- Girls are amazing sexually; this was taken from a post from facebook.com “Girls have unique magic tricks, they get wet without water, bleed without injury, and make boneless things hard.”
- You cannot live without them; some say “you don’t need a woman” which is not true, every guy needs a girl to fulfill their intimate desires and take care for them
- They want to be treated fairly and equally
- They are crazy for freedom and they want to have fun and enjoy life
- They may interact with other males in a way that will make you jealous in rage
- They may do things that will hurt you, even though they know it will hurt you if you knew, but they will continue to do it to fulfill themselves
- They want excitement from time to time to deviate from their normal life
- A girl’s heart is a locket full of secrets

This is out of the subject but here is a good blog about keeping a good relationship from the females point of view

There will be a time in a guy’s life where he has to commit to a girl. To the male readers, take the points from my expereince in consideration when going into commitment. Girls are amazing; however, they will hurt you one time or another and there will be a time when she will be your world.

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